Bonang!

You'd think I'm lying if I told you I just woke up,opened my laptop and started typing...no idea,no mission,just the usual that dwells in my heart...today's entry is perhaps long overdue to those who know me.I thought I'd pour my heart out to and salute my fashion mentor and school my readers on the magnificence that is

Bonang B* Matheba!here goes...

Love at first sight

In every typical young girl's world,you turn 14,insecurities build up,you feel you need to look perfect for the boys *giggles* and most significantly you develop an interest in certain aspects of life.When I was 14...I had a passion for fashion, invested in Elle and  Glamour mags,got so keen on shopping and what has now become my field of interest became more apparent then.So here was a young lady with big dreams like me,a slender frame like me,chocolate skin like me and a fashion guru as i'd love to be.

who's that girl

Bonang Matheba better known as B* in the showbiz industry is not your average girl. Did I mention that like me, she is a Motswana by origin. Born to  this earth 26 years ago in the blooming town of Mafikeng,SouthAfrica, Bonang was a dynamite waiting to explode. She's adored all over her country for her exquisite presenter skills and her bold and daring fashion sense. Her fame continues to grow like a raging fire whilst her destiny remains half a mystery...with Bonang,you just never know.

*bang,bang*

At 26,she has accomplished more than many her age have.she has won literally over a dozen awards,giving her that many prestigious titles e.g SA's "it girl" and Most stylish female personality at the feather awards to mention the least. Most recently and vitally,Queen B has not only made her die hard fans proud,but her country and the continent at large for being the first non American Revlon Cosmetics Ambassador alongside Halle Berry and the likes. Need i say more?

Why Bonang?

Its one of the questions I'v gotten from many of my peers.While some feel I overrate her,others feel there are better fashionistas out there.here's what i have to say:

the truth is Bonang's fashion sense has gone far beyond the expectations of our continent and has pierced into the fashion forward scenes of New York and Paris. What I'm trying to say is she could fit right into the American fast life and it would be near impossible to recognize her as a foreigner.

Weather we like to hear it or not,that's what most of us aim for...that's what inspires our long sleek weaves and or the makeup we use. We'd love to be like the Kims and Solanges and hence we draw inspiration from them. Now whats more inspirational than an African girl who has accomplished thus? She lives proof that anything is possible, that you can be whatever you dream to be. And what strikes me the most...she is ever so proud of her roots,her background and behind all the glamour is a soul that acknowledges home.

My letter to B* 

n/b: i emailed this to her manager a couple of months ago...the love will never die :

I'm that girl who wrote you a 3 page inbox on facebook,the girl who RTs you twice a week and favourites all the time you RT back on twitter..the girl that has watched all epis of b*dazzled,has almost every single published picture of you,has read every mag you've covered and googles you for updates..at first instinct you'd assume I'm yet another groupie or obsessor...not even.what you simply do is inspire me...I admire your strength and your long leaps over hurdles,your bold and daring fashion sense,your passion for success and yet and above all,your humility and love for God.A rare package!I pray that God helps you so you continue climbing milestones..and so you continue being the inspiration you are in my life..I'm a poet,an aspiring model,a lover of fashion and art so you can imagine the impact you have in my life.I dream of meeting you..someday,somehow.I love you B!keep shining and rising doll!:)

In summary...this is a girl who has literally started from the bottom...she has known defeat and is now enjoying success.She never lets anything put her down and lives by this motto "rise above,return hate with love..kill them with kindness and bury them with success".I declare here now,that no matter what comes along,Bonang Matheba will remain one of my favorite style icons for life.

#GertCoetzeeGowns #bonang #powerCombo

far right:3 trends at once,the decolletage,the sheer chest and the peplum

xo,TheFashionPoet

keeping up with the fashion poet

I've always been that girl who knows the same lot, keeps the same circle of friends (with a few additions) does the same things...but still i had a yearning for a new chapter,a whole new life,different people..a different city and guess what?dreams come true :)

In about a month, I'm moving away....far away.its bittersweet 'coz my whole life is here..family,friends,acquaintances and even those who hate to see me succeed!but the thrill in a brand new experience is addictive.in the past week alone iv encountered soo many opinions about where I'm going and so forth.but in that week iv learnt quite a lot.there's that time in life when 'hustle' becomes a reality and not just a cool word,when you realise your future depends on the decisions you make now..when you see that at some point you need to part with your friends of 13 years and meet them later when you're all mommies. WHEN YOU NEED TO LOOK AT THE BIGGER PICTURE.

Don you just envy accomplished women who can afford their fashion cravings...don't you have those big scary dreams waiting to be achieved?and don't you know behind the fashion is a brain,a sense of intellect?Besides nothing's more attractive than a beauty with brains.so i made one of the boldest decisions of my life...i've put my dreams first...my future.On the upside we can blog from anywhere in the world...so this little escape will never move!

TheFashioPoetSays; "If your dreams aren't scary,they aren't big enough!once in a while be selfish and think about no one else but you..do things in your own favor but be careful not to dream too long.make it happen"

Retail Therapy: shoe edition featuring Phatsimo Angela Mooka

First time I met her she rocked an orange blazer with hints of leopard print trimming and i thought; "wow,she's trendy"!The next time I saw her she was in a denim no-collar blazer with chunky chain trimmings.and that time i was thinking "whose that girl"??

Her name is Phatsimo...a young lady with a yearning for fashion. But what sets her apart is her shoe closet.This is a typical Gaborone born girl around my age who owns several pairs of original Christian Louboutins.*bang,bang*

Its every fashion lover's dream to rock the red sole...food for the soul and candy for the eyes.Whilst it remains an ambition for many of us..its her mere reality.Here's a sneak peek of some of her stunning babies :)

ruby red leather studded pumps

 

<<kimmy's pointed courts loubi collection!phatsi has had her feet in something similar,dont you wish?? *drool*

 

I was rather inspired  by her modesty and thought it would  inspire you too.Here's how our chat went down

her fashion motto

she lives by Coco Chanel's policy that fashion fades but style remains.

she's a risk taker and has chosen to ignore societies opinion but instead satisfies her own original sentiments..in a nutshell, do you for you and not for other people and what they'l say.

 

her fashion icon

she realises the fine line between inspiration and imitation!as mentioned before she acknowledges that originality is key!in the fashion world however, she looks up to Bonang Matheba,Khloe Kardashian,Angela Simmons and her mom!

 

how and where she got her loubis

"i didn't  just wake up one morning and say im gonna get red bottoms" she says. she makes it clear that getting them was a goal she worked hard to achieve.a great deal of saving up was involved and she had to sacrifice a whole lot (probably a month or two of no shopping).another pair was from her mother.she got them while she was on a trip in New york.she also does a lot of online shopping which avails her such grand opportunities.

 

#red sole#studs!#PowerCombo#love

 

The Fashion Poet says; louboutins arent only for the kims and kourts..they are for all of us fashion lovers.Phatsi lives proof!so dream Big and believe..

 

xo,the fashion poet

extraordinary simplicity

Its been soo long my lovings but I'm back with yet another informative entry.In this one I'll let you in on a secret.Did you know that it isn't impossible to look your best yet maintain an edge of simplicity.The myth is that a pony tail,no make up,sheer lips,flats and a detail free ensemble define 'simple'!But who the hell said??

The Fashion Poet says;
"Go ahead and style your braids up,have your ensemble loud as you please,pick colours from your heart,simplicity isn't what you wear,its how its worn!!"

Rule 1:sacrifice one thing for the other
If you are gonna have a busy hair-do...go for a very clean face!nude or sheer lips,neutral coloured eye makeup or alternatively no make up at all!likewise,you will have to choose between a statement neck piece and statement earrings.avoid rocking them both simultaneously.




styled up braids,calm makeup,statement neck piece and pearly studs.#AllWhiteEverything

Rule 2:careful with colours
This much isn't a myth but the mere reality.Too many colours at once are anything but 'simple'.hence work with a maximum of two dominant colours that compliment one another.

We get tired of looking OTT(over the top).Once in a while we'd love to look laid-back and effortless.however our biggest fear in this regard is looking 'dull' or what i refer to as 'characterless' for its our style that defines us.its easy though..the bridge between 'fabulousity' and 'simplicity' is elegance.its up to you to find the balance.

 

"simplicity is the key to ultimate sophistication"-Coco Chanel

xo,TheFashionPoet

It Goes Untitled

The week that was has been...eventful!deadlines to meet,promises to fullfill and a blog to attend to.i have a new buddy in blogger world.her name is Amantle Mapoka(a friend of mine from highschool).When she first asked to profile me,i was honored by the gesture but honestly i didnt expect the moon.im elated to say at the moment,nearer home she's by far my blogging inspiration and her catchy work drove me right into the mission of giving my favourite outlet a mini-makover.here is a link to her exquisite piece about me as well as other local and upcoming fashionistas.dont forget to subscribe.she's got a wealth to offer.

In further regard,thought id let you in on the makeover,where im headed and what to expect from TheFashionPoet.the name of my blog is perhaps a seldom combo but infact a spot on description of who i am and what i believe in...hence i saw it fit to try and create that balance....build that bridge between fashion and poetry.from now on you will see a bit of both worlds,simultaneously or otherwise.ranging from the latest trends to my personal obsessions and from time to time;second opinions from my peers,however il still keep those emotive pieces rolling.

see you on the flipside bubs.
                           xo,TheFashionPoet

Did You Know?

Did you know?....
...that in latter day 1 in each clique girls get raped and dont even know it? what used to be a sensual,sensational and memorable 'first time' for the earlier generation has become a roudy, rough, hit and run, must do by or before sixteen situation for today's youngsters.i hope you follow.

Rape isnt only being held down and forced to have sex,its as long as one part of the couple is unsatisfied with any sexual agreement prior to the activity... which is why i also believe in the existence of inter-marital rape.when i asked for a friends opinion on inter-marital rape he said that he believed marraige is an agreement where two people indirectly consent to jumping into bed together,whenever regardless.hence should there be a disagreement,its simply that and not rape.whats your say?feel free to leave a comment.

moving on,a couple of days ago,a friend confided in me about her friend who gave it up to her crush during a house party in the presence of other invitees.she went on to narrate of how traumatising it was for both the 'audience' and the female.she explained how she was in an awkward and uncomfortable position,was clearly in pain and tears streamed down her face...simultaneously,blood trickled from Lord knows where onto the floor.mere words evoked mixed feelings ranging from disgust to pity(God pardon me).the sight of it would haunt me probably for the rest of my life.

manier times,bitter-sweet is used metaphorically.its nothing tangible...sex,it should be something like.beautiful pain.but tears,blood,sweat?thats all pain!question yourself,debate it,weigh the pros and cons.who are you doing it for?it should be for you because you feel you're ready not because your partner is putting pressure on you.that alone is rape.and never because your friends are doing it!although i mean not to judge,over and above all...consider your values and beliefs and the consequences your decision will come with.if you do go ahead with it,think about what memories you'l carry out of it.are they worthy of your past,your present and your untouched future?

its sad 'cause there's no reversing what happened.i wish there's something i could have done to save her..she's only 14.somethings happen so others learn from them.its life.girls,ladies,women....know your self worth.make the right choices.

                                                                                      xo,thefashionPoet

streets meet style

im yonie...easy to spot..highwaists,bags,shoes and the sort.
because i fought for style over just fashion...my own voice through the clothes i wear
a voice to define me and a voice to share
...despair...lies in the power of my sky-high loubis
its what puts me ahead of that specie i thought had coodies.
shout out to the woman who can stand tall and make perfect strides in them
...for it is the woman who can take life's lemons and make lemonade of them
here art thou...7inches higher,stronger,tougher,perhaps vile
watch as these streets meet my style

                                                                                                     xo,TheFashionPoet